People come to this world alone and they have to go alone. To make this journey called life easier, we associate with people, we form bonds. Some bonds are made by birth and blood, some by fate, and some we choose on our own. In the former two cases, not much is in our hands. The latter case is where we make the most mistakes, or in some cases the best decisions of our lifetime. These people we choose come to be known as our friends, a word and a bond widely misused these days. What makes it worse is that however good you think your judgement might be, only time can show you the true colours of any person.
Its a tricky thing, making friends, more like a trial and error method. Some friends are made by chance, while on the other hand, more often than not, the friends you depend on might give you the woes of your life. And that isn't even the worst part, it is when you try to cope with it, when you try to get over them that you realise what a fool you've been. The thing is that we don't even know when to give up because no matter what we're going to regret it even if its the best thing to do.
This world we live in, is full of selfishness and although its not an admirable trait, we need to be a little selfish ourselves to survive here. We need to realise our worth, and make sure we put nothing above our self respect. We need to realise second chances aren't always fruitful, and many times its not worth it. We need to realise that people who hurt us, are going to do it again and we need to take a step back to prevent ourselves from getting hurt. And if they're your true friends, nothing will ever matter, because true friendship is meant to last. Also, once you know who isn't going to stick by you when you need them, its best to stop waiting on them once you push them away, because they ain't coming back.
If you run, and they don't chase you, keep running.. because there's a chance you might find someone you'll be glad to run into.
Nice one dear! :)
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