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||Wake up and smell the coffee..



You go to sleep feeling all gloomy because you wasted another day not studying. But come on, you had fun! That's not a day wasted, that's just a ton of memories made. So you procrastinated for another day. Big deal! Ki farak paenda hai! You could still do it you know, SHINE. :)

Stop regretting things, fretting over them because they're not what should have happened. Because, after all, they did happen, and might have also put a smile on your face. Always try to make a fresh start. Wake up, look around, admire all the good that you have in your life, and set out to find the rest of what you want. Never give up on your hopes, your dreams, yourself! You're your only strength you know, so be that as best as you can. People may loose faith in you, sometimes fate might be too harsh on you, but never give up. Never give up because there is still someone who believes in you - YOU!

Stop doing things for others, trying to make them happy. Live a little for yourself, do what makes YOU happy! Work towards your goal in small steps and celebrate your small victories at every step of the journey. And don't get scared if you're still not sure of what your goal is, because it'll come to you, if it hasn't yet. You're young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Take chances! Take a leap of faith. Go for something if you want even if it seems like a bad idea. At the end of the day, all that matters is that you know more than you knew the previous day, that you're more like the you that you wanna be. ;)

PS : Never give up on anything that you don't want to. You'll thank me later for this one. :)
        It might not seem like a good idea sometimes, but trust me, the things that you love are very often the    ones that mould your destiny the best way!

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  1. "Never give up because there is still someone who believes in you - YOU!"

    Remember this, and you will smile every single second of your life, because after all, its your smile that people love the most :)

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